Dare to DREAM

We all have dreams but are we all willing to share those dreams with the world? I can honestly say until today my answer was always 'no'. Just letting myself imagine that I can be something other than what I am or do something new and different than anything I have ever done overwhelms my brain! I totally believe in the saying "anything is possible", just no sure it applies to myself. Since this is my photography blog, I won't get into the dozens of dreams I've had over my thirty three years, I will only elaborate on my dream of becoming a professional photographer. Here it is in a nutshell. I love taking photos! You can always find me with my camera on vacation, at parties, holidays, and on bike rides. I think the best gift you can give someone is a photograph. I thought to myself why cant I do this for a living?! There it is...a simple dream. It's not like I want to be a rock star or an actress. I want to snap pictures and make a living doing it.

Sounds easy enough right? What happens when you dare to dream? You usually get sidetracked by the fear, doubt, and insecurity that comes along with dreaming. That's where I have been for the past few years. Wishing and hoping to learn about photography but never jumping in and doing it. Sure, I've been practicing by hounding friends and family like a paparazzi every chance I get. I even take the time to come up with great poses and cool ideas, but there's a lot more to being a photographer than that. That's where the fear and insecurity come in. Am I smart enough to learn how to use this camera? Will I be able to figure out how to edit photos? Can I even afford all the tools I will need to start my own business? The list of self doubt goes on.

As I was working on this blog, I stumbled upon an article that really struck me. Actually, it was like someone had written what I was thinking! Obviously not everything is the same but close enough to make me think my dream isn't crazy. Thank you Megan Squires for being brave enough to share you journey to realizing your dream!

This is my way of sharing my dream with the world...only through someone else's words. Hey, you gotta start somewhere :)



Pursuing Your Dreams by Megan Squires, borrowed from ClickinMoms Blog

"I remember the first time I picked up a DLSR camera. I clicked the shutter, glanced at the LCD screen, and instantly knew this was something that just felt right to me. The ability to freeze a second of my brand new baby’s life was a dream come true. And I knew that I needed more of it—that I had to learn everything there was to know about this camera in my hand. It became a goal of mine. A dream that I didn’t even know I had until that first image graced the screen.

My dreaming didn’t stop there. After researching, practicing (lots of it), and discovering this passion, I developed new dreams. Ones that involved photographing children other than my own, getting my business license and charging for my work, and eventually narrowing my area of expertise to specialize in newborns through high school seniors. As these dreams were realized, new ones began to grow, such as opening my own studio and hitting my target for my sessions and my finances.

All of these individual dreams compiled into one bigger goal—to turn my passion for photography into a business. Your dream might be different. It might involve learning to photograph your child’s soccer game without him blurring across the field, it might be getting an image of yours published in your favorite magazine, or it might be perfecting the art of birth photography. Whatever it is, there are several things necessary to help you realize these dreams. We all have goals, and we all need a few essential things to happen in order to achieve them.

Have people in your life that support you no matter what.

When I first started in photography I was awful. I didn’t know it at the time, but I truly was. If I had asked a professional photographer if I might have some real, future possibility of doing this for a living, they would have flat out said “no.” Luckily, I didn’t just dive right into business (although I probably should have spent more time in the portfolio building portion in hindsight).

But I had cheerleaders surrounding me that encouraged me to master my craft. Close friends and family members spurred me on, telling me that they had confidence and faith in me that if I was determined to learn photography, I could do it. They gave me that push I needed when I looked at other photographer’s blogs I
admired and felt inadequate. They gave me the ability to see the potential they saw in me. They encouraged me to do whatever it would take to make my goals a reality. I’m so grateful for their unconditional support, because without them, my dreaming probably would have died.

Have people in your life that tell it to you straight.

I know what you’re thinking, this sort of goes against what I just said about having a strong support system. But it doesn’t. In fact, one can’t really exist without the other. For as wonderful as it is to have those constant cheerleaders, you need to have people who will tell you the harsh truth, but will do so with your best interest in mind.

When I started writing a novel a while back, I read an article that said something along the lines of, “Your critique needs to come from those not connected to you. Of course your mom and your best friend love your book and gave you five stars. Something would be wrong if they didn’t.” This is true for photography, too. When I started out taking photographs of other’s children, I was always blown away how moms would gush over the images. Looking back, I cringe at some of those first portraits. I knew nothing about exposure, composition or vision. But did the moms care? No, they thought their child looked fantastic, green color-cast and all. And they should have thought that, it was their child in the picture. Just like with the book, something would be wrong if they had said, “Joey looks horrible! I absolutely hate him in these.”

So it’s vital to have someone on the outside, someone not as deeply invested emotionally in your dream as you and your close friends and family, who will offer you truth and critique regarding your work. Someone who can see your potential, and show you how to get there. Just as much as you need those cheering you on along the way, you also need those that are committed to helping you learn the techniques to get you there. It’s more than motivation, it’s education, so you need to have multiple people in your life that can provide each of these elements for you.

A dream is a wish your heart makes.

Yes, ultimately our dreams grow out of our passions, but they need to grow out of our brains, too. To a certain extent, you’ve got to be realistic in your dreaming. Sure, I’d love to become the next American Idol, but the truth is, I can’t carry a tune in a bucket. No matter how many hours I spend singing in the shower, I’ll never be able to produce a song that others would willingly want to listen to. Yes, I might be able to sing my kids softly to bed each night, I might even be able to sing in the church choir, but my name will never be at the top of the charts.

Dreams, in order to be achieved, need to be attainable. Set goals that you can meet along your journey toward your bigger goals. Be realistic. Know your limits, but don’t feel bound by them. Don’t be afraid to dream big, but don’t forget to start small. Make those milestones part of your dream instead of tasks that need to be checked off of a list. When I came up with my goal to open my own photography studio, I made the entire process part of the dream. Every month that I successfully hit my target number for sessions, I celebrated it. Each time I brought in my desired income, I considered it a victory. Don’t get overwhelmed by the seemingly far-off goal, but commemorate each step that brings you closer to it.

Don’t give up.

I know this should go without saying, but it’s so easy to throw in the towel when things don’t go as planned or when the journey takes longer than expected. But a dream is just that, a goal. And by definition, a goal is “the end toward which effort is directed.” It takes a lot of effort to make your dreams come true. Things rarely happen overnight. And while the long hours of practice and learning might grow tiresome, it’s an integral part of the process, so be encouraged in knowing that anyone who’s achieved their dreams has followed a similar path of persistence.

So go ahead, line up your cheerleaders and your truth-tellers and start setting some goals. It might be scary—it will definitely be intimidating—but once you meet that first milestone in your pursuit, you won’t dream of turning back."

Photography Bucket List

The past few days I have been looking at hundreds of awesome photographs online. There are so many places and things to photograph around the world. For the better part of my 33 years, I haven't been up for traveling. Not really interested in leaving the creature comforts of the United States,(mostly because I don't have a very diversified palette and we are on a military income) I refrained from traveling to exotic, far off places. Right after we got married, about a week to be exact, my husband received orders to Japan. There was no way in the world I was moving to Japan for at least four years. I had never been away from home, didn't know how to cook really, and was pretty much on a Mexican food diet ;) That would be the only opportunity I would have to live abroad :(

Fast forward 15 years later and now I would LOVE to travel the world. Other than my favorite place, Hawaii, I haven't been to too many exciting places. I was fortunate enough to take two girls trips in the past five years, New York City and Napa/San Francisco. Both trips I was lacking a great camera to capture all my memories.

This past Christmas I was able to visit Hawaii with my brand new Dslr! This trip, like the past 3, I snapped hundreds of photos. The only difference was I was able to capture the true colors of the island. All amateur photographers and tourists know that when you show your friends and family your vacation pictures, the water isn't as blue as it was and the flowers aren't as bright as they were when you were there. Unless you are a professional with professional equipment, you really have to see the colors of the island in person to believe such vibrant colors exist naturally. The first thing I try to describe to people when they ask if Hawaii is beautiful, is the many shades of blue Of the ocean. It's not hard to capture the dark blue shade of the ocean with a point and shoot. To be able to bring back photos that show turquoise and cobalt water flowing onto a beautiful sandy beach is a challenge. Sometimes I'm up for a challenge, and the Christmas trip to Hawaii was my test to see if I could conquer boring photos.

I was successful in my endeavor to bring home the beauty of Hawaii! Im happy to say that tropical flowers, sandy beaches, and stunning ocean views are now a part of my photo albums.

This small victory brings me to the reason for this post. I want to travel and capture the beauty of people, places, and things. Whats the best part of traveling? Engaging in local customs and food. Why not photograph those as well! I've been known to pull out my camera during a meal so I can share with everyone just how yummy my dessert was or how delicious the pasta was at the new restaurant I tried.

My food spectrum still isn't as wide as I would like it to be and the budget is still in the military range, but I am going to start a Photo Bucket List. It's time to experience new foods and put some stamps in my passport. I guess I better get one of those! For now, I will start close, The Golden Gate Bridge. I've seen it many times, driven over it, and even have a few shots with it in the background. Key word - background. I want the bridge to be the entire focus. The weather in Frisco is, at the least, uncooperative! If you're lucky enough to spot the sun, it is usually only a matter of minutes before the clouds cover it up, the fog rolls in, and it's too windy to keep a camera still. My goal is to capture the orange, architectural wonder with the sun shining brightly on it while the hills of San Francisco quietly play the background. Below you will find my pictures of the G.G.B. and two examples of what I hope to capture one day :)


March 2012

August 2012

NOT MY PHOTOS - FOUND ON GOOGLE

Life's a Beach

I have so many great photos from our trips to Hawaii last summer. I might spend a week blogging some of my favorites! It doesn't matter how many times I look at these photos, I can vividly recall everything that was going on at the time they were taken. I love how photos can instantly transport me. I can hear the waves crashing, smell the saltiness of the water, and feel the sand beneath my toes. I can feel the sun burning my skin, feel the humidity in the air, and hear the laughter of the boys while they play in the ocean.

Why is it so important to document our lives in photos? Time goes by so quickly and before you know it everyone around has grown older. I remember when all of my nieces and nephews were born and now they are adults, young men, teenagers, preteens, grade schoolers, and toddlers! When we capture moments in photographs, we are freezing time. In my pictures, my family and friends will never age or grow old. They will be exactly the way they were when I snapped their picture.
Vacations, holidays, and celebrations are part our daily conversations we have with each other. We can share these stories and adventures and our listeners are only able to grasp a small piece of the moment, but a photo will really capture the essence of what we are saying.

So my advice..never miss an opportunity to SNAP a memory :)